tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-91512294977000558812024-03-12T15:49:19.228-07:00happily ever aftermy poems and articles on how to live happily ever after.sai deepahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09055909424313405806noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9151229497700055881.post-49129423297834746752011-10-10T00:23:00.000-07:002011-10-10T00:23:45.987-07:00null<a href="http://healthmad.com/women/common-questions-about-womens-health/">null</a><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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a look of contempt displeases me<br />
a door mat I am not<br />
yet I am considered to be<br />
what makes me hold on<br />
and continue the <a href="http://www.wikinut.com/saving-a-strained-marriage/41byjjbn/2ekazdoc/">game of life</a><br />
is patience and love <br />
which gives me sanity<br />
I shall stoop not<br />
but try to stand above<br />
those who stoop low to deride others<br />
a high and mighty attitude is what destroys relationships<br />
smile and forgive<br />
God will take care of the rest.<div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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Braiding is part of the rituals of African tribes. [ snap included]<div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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I shout back often<br />
love is sometimes lost<br />
and returns back rarely<br />
grudges keep surfacing<br />
never letting me love<br />
where is the true love<br />
I have experienced before<br />
help me to <a href="http://hubpages.com/hub/How-to-love-passionately">love again</a><br />
and live in peace for ever<br />
love is unselfish they say<br />
but abuse or slavery<br />
it is certainly not<br />
I keep searching<br />
and so do others<br />
true love seems evasive<br />
greed and lust reign<br />
is there a way out, please explain<br />
hearts made pure and God's presence<br />
may make love last forever.<br />
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2. Never have the myth that you will win an argument, nobody does.<br />
3. Bend and Conquer- adjustment will help get things done, in your line of thinking faster than you think.<br />
4. Never complain about your spouse in front of others-gossip mongers will make hay while the sun shines.<br />
5. Remember Love always wins and that love is unselfish. Learn to express love more often because it does not cost anything.</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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<div class="mts fbGroupDoc fsm fwn fcg"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4daede1bcb5db8827008259"><em>The article which is being presented here, author anonymous, because I still doubt who's the real author. I found it in the notes section of one my friends, and I would really want to ask her the artist behind this beautiful piece of writing here. It isn't about grammar, it's just about how you love your spouse or your love interest! Remember frien<span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show">ds, this isn't my original work, I'm sharing this because I felt it should be read by everyone! </span></em><span class="text_exposed_show"></span><br />
<span class="text_exposed_show"><strong>-Kartik Angara</strong><br />
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In a relationship, married or not... YOU SHOULD READ THIS!<br />
MARRIAGE When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband.... The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.<br />
By: Kimmies Floral</span></div></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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felt and shared with a dear one<br />
Lord krishna is the epitome of love<br />
and the gopis represents the devotees hearts<br />
God and love are one<br />
He who created us did so from the same clay<br />
why do people fight <br />
when the color of blood remains the same<br />
terrorism should be removed<br />
the modern day plague of the human mind<br />
smile should return to the child's face<br />
and nature shall never be angry again<br />
love shall transform<br />
even the hardest of hearts<br />
so try to spread the joy<br />
and shake hands with a smile<br />
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two souls share <br />
lives are entwined<br />
and everything is one<br />
let not selfishness rise<br />
<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--Ht8mwadSrk/TZwD1I3Fb0I/AAAAAAAAADc/ThTag_hGZjI/s1600/6JCASS7BF4CAV61TUACACS2DFXCAYJWG1OCACJJ2NRCA5S325PCAZK4FYDCA3Z9C3OCA3G1T3JCA1HNTR6CAE1PV16CAEL7P8ICAWDEYBKCARGE40BCAAXCMH7CAXSYJSTCAWA91WNCAD7VRRVCAC37KFL.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" r6="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--Ht8mwadSrk/TZwD1I3Fb0I/AAAAAAAAADc/ThTag_hGZjI/s1600/6JCASS7BF4CAV61TUACACS2DFXCAYJWG1OCACJJ2NRCA5S325PCAZK4FYDCA3Z9C3OCA3G1T3JCA1HNTR6CAE1PV16CAEL7P8ICAWDEYBKCARGE40BCAAXCMH7CAXSYJSTCAWA91WNCAD7VRRVCAC37KFL.jpg" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">let not pride arise</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">a drop of poison spoils the glass of water</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">a shade of ego spoils the relationship</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">true love gives in and shares</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">bears the taunts and glares</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">it stands the test of time and finally wins</div><a href="http://2d341zxbccq20m1memn9dpsgpa.hop.clickbank.net/">for love is immortal and never dies.</a><br />
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<ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Argue</span></li>
<li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Suspect</span></li>
<li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Be Selfish</span></li>
<li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Self Pity</span></li>
<li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Cheat</span></li>
<li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Flirt</span></li>
<li><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia;">Do Not Forget To Love</span></li>
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feel good<br />
you are together</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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cheat and you may lose it<br />
nag and you will be resented<br />
laugh and you will be sought<br />
love and if it is selfless<br />
that will seal it for ever</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">What therefore god hath joined together let not man put asunder</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Psalm–ST. Mark. 10, 9</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://2d341zxbccq20m1memn9dpsgpa.hop.clickbank.net/">Emotional distress in strained relationships and marriages</a> are increasing by the day. Modern technology has given man many a comfort in daily life. He has become more lazy and arrogant. Loved ones are no longer close to man. Instead, man finds pleasure in seeking other forbidden fruits. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">When partners in a marriage spouses start to quarrel and if they are really young and immature, it is had to bring them back together. They may not see reason. In such situations, counseling and prayer may be of help.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Fighting for trivial causes must be avoided because marriage involves not only two persons who love each other but their families and friends also. The emotional breakdown is not worth it.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">When a marriage is dissolved it brings forth a lot of problems like dislocation, money matters etc. When these factors are looked into before dissolving a marriage, i.e. if the partners are wise enough to think of these before calling it quits, then they will realize that the cause of the fight is silly and not worthy of any sacrifice. And they will compromise.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Aggravating a problem must be avoided by close relatives and friends. When advising a couple we must be careful not to put oil in a raging fire, i.e. we should not antagonize the partners. Otherwise they may take wrong decisions.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Sometimes a fight if slept over a day or two will be forgotten soon. So it is better not to fight back unnecessarily and create chaos and confusion and a disturbed house. My mother-in-law always says when my husband and I quarrel that she will not interfere when we seek her advice because according to her a husband and wife will fight one day and love the next day. So if she were to take sides, she would be the fool. I took this advice from her and more and keep my mouth shut, zip it up when my husband tries to provoke me with words or actions. After some time, he gives up when I do not react and soon the whole matter is forgotten. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Real love will stand the test of time, so give up your ego and pride, love unconditionally, even if your partner is not worth it because they will one day realize your value. Why jump from frying pan to another fire?</div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://2d341zxbccq20m1memn9dpsgpa.hop.clickbank.net/">Love truly your patner and you will never be sorry, because love grows when you give more.</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Love is the factor that unites a man and a woman in marriage. It is not an obligation; it is an expression of our inner feelings. When you are in love, there is no duality. For love to be pure and everlasting, we must clear the weeds of ego, greed, selfishness and suspicion. If we succeed in loving thus, our married life will never develop any problems and we will never have troubles.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">In most divorces, the main cause of rift has been misunderstanding and lack of commitment among partners. When the people involved have not completely understood each other and enter into a relationship, storms will brew after a short time. Just like their impulsive marriage, their behavior will also be impulsive which could lead to fights and heated arguments if the partner is not of an understanding nature.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Lack of commitment is a major issue. If partners think of marriage as a convenience based platform, they will not be fully and completely dedicated to the partner which would mean that they will go wayward if they are given a chance, resulting in divorce or separation. A marriage should not be considered as an object that can be bought as and when one likes from a market. A marriage involves two humans with emotions, [humans must not be treated like a robot], sometimes, children [who will be emotionally disturbed if their habitat is questioned] and society. All these factors must be carefully considered before jumping into a relationship and later declaring it to be most stupid action ever done.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Love is an emotion felt deep in the heart. At first good looks and infatuation may have been the cause, but later on if the partners have deep understanding and unselfish care for each other, the relationship develops into a strong bond and will stay forever which no flirt or scandal can break. You can feel your love surge when you are away from your partner. Such love should be developed where the partners are completely interdependent and trust each other fully.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">True love between partners will spread and infect the children also who will be nurtured in this lovely atmosphere. They in turn will be responsible partners and parents, thus helping society to be more or less civilized. But during these modern days, commitment, true love and unselfish behavior seems to have vanished<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>thus causing divorces and rifts in relationships and marriages and thereby causing mental stress to the people involved.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Try to adjust and resolve any problems because life is meant to enjoyed, not to be wasted by dwelling over problems present or past. Love yourself, your lover, your children, your friends and relatives. Forget grudges of past, because nobody is perfect including you and adjust. Start to love this very moment, it is still not too late.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">The first step is to convince yourself that you are an important person whether or not anybody accepts or ridicules you. Nobody has any right to treat you like an animal. When you give confidence to your soul, you will not henceforth suffer any more abuse. It works.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">It has taken time, money, emotions and effort to form a relationship with your partner. So do not let trivial matters upset your relationship which was once filled with love. Try to revive the same love that once filled your heart.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Conflicts occur because partners do not agree on many matters. But instead of arguing and separating, try to solve problems by consulting and seeking advice from elders. Their lifetime of experience must not be treated lightly.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Children should be brought up in an environment of love. Consider your children’s future before jumping to decisions. A boy must have his own father‘s proximity when growing up. Likewise a girl must have her mother’s support during hr teenage years. Before parting try to think of their well being and give it one more try.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Selfish motives and thoughts are impediments in a marriage. Try to remove selfish thoughts and desires because they make one egocentric. Love is lost when one thinks of only one’s own aims and ends. One drop of poison spoils a glass of water. Likewise, a selfish thought will spoil a marriage, a beautiful relationship.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Lack of spending time with each other can cause a rift in relationships. Other interests or friends may take your place if you do not show the same amount of proximity and love toward your partner. So is not prevention better than cure?</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Emotions and love play an important role in married life. Try to show more love and be true in your feelings toward your partner. Superficial love is soon seen through.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Last, but not least partners should complement each other. They should rely on each other’s support and love so that whenever a problem arises, their marriage will not fail. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Marriage should be treated with respect and responsibility because it forms the backbone of society. Partners should adjust to the maximum before calling it quits. So try to save your marriage, please. Remember, marriages are made in heaven. Bring back the love that was once present and live happily once more.</div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Love is the factor that unites a man and a woman in marriage. It is not an obligation; it is an expression of our inner feelings. When you are in love, there is no duality. For love to be pure and everlasting, we must clear the weeds of ego, greed, selfishness and suspicion. If we succeed in loving thus, our married life will never develop any problems and we will never have troubles.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">In most divorces, the main cause of rift has been misunderstanding and lack of commitment among partners. When the people involved have not completely understood each other and enter into a relationship, storms will brew after a short time. Just like their impulsive marriage, their behavior will also be impulsive which could lead to fights and heated arguments if the partner is not of an understanding nature.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Lack of commitment is a major issue. If partners think of marriage as a convenience based platform, they will not be fully and completely dedicated to the partner which would mean that they will go wayward if they are given a chance, resulting in divorce or separation. A marriage should not be considered as an object that can be bought as and when one likes from a market. A marriage involves two humans with emotions, [humans must not be treated like a robot], sometimes, children [who will be emotionally disturbed if their habitat is questioned] and society. All these factors must be carefully considered before jumping into a relationship and later declaring it to be most stupid action ever done.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Love is an emotion felt deep in the heart. At first good looks and infatuation may have been the cause, but later on if the partners have deep understanding and unselfish care for each other, the relationship develops into a strong bond and will stay forever which no flirt or scandal can break. You can feel your love surge when you are away from your partner. Such love should be developed where the partners are completely interdependent and trust each other fully.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">True love between partners will spread and infect the children also who will be nurtured in this lovely atmosphere. They in turn will be responsible partners and parents, thus helping society to be more or less civilized. But during these modern days, commitment, true love and unselfish behavior seems to have vanished<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>thus causing divorces and rifts in relationships and marriages and thereby causing mental stress to the people involved.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Try to adjust and resolve any problems because life is meant to enjoyed, not to be wasted by dwelling over problems present or past. Love yourself, your lover, your children, your friends and relatives. Forget grudges of past, because nobody is perfect including you and adjust. Start to love this very moment, it is still not too late.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">Home is where the heart is. Married persons or those involved in a relationship should never make the following mistakes if they want to be happy forever with their partners.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">They are:</div><ol style="margin-top: 0in;" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;">Taking partners for granted and not giving them full attention- don’t make the mistake of ignoring partner once settled because marriage is like a tender sapling which needs utmost care and protection till it has reached a certain maturity level.</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;">Flirting-even if your partner is magnanimous and open hearted, their heart will pain if you give more than necessary attention to unwanted people. Try to avoid flirting if you really love your partner.</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;">Arguing- nobody till date has ever won an argument properly. Even if self declaring to be the winner, the other person will have grudges against you, so never argue with your partner. It will only pull you apart. If you want your partner to accept your view, try to speak kindly and encourage him or her to clarify his point of view, slowly he or she will accept yours and both of you can come to a consensus.</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;">Give up exorbitant desires- try to live with what you have, give up irrational desires and be satisfied and content with what God has given you. Try not to look up, but compare your life with those who are less lucky than you and you will realize that you are better off. Excessive desires make you hungry for more and less patient leaving you stressed and unhappy. This could affect your marriage.</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;">Not spending time together more- most people spend their time in other pursuits like social networking etc. ignoring their near and dear. While society is a must it does not mean that one should be addicted to it day and night.</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;">Addictions- The partners should always be on the lookout for snares like addiction. Do not let your partner be controlled by any form of addiction because you may lose your position in his or her heart, let not that happen. Be brave to oppose this trait. Prevention is better than cure.</li>
</ol><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">There are so many more points to be chewed and followed if you want to make your marriage work. Love unconditionally and that is the secret of a real marriage. In my married life I have gone through many rough times and there were days when I was left in tears most of the time. Only patience and support from God and my mother has helped me through.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">Love for love’s sake,</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">Do stop to think before making a mistake</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">Life is to be enjoyed, so smile</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">Does not cost, will take you miles</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">Have a pure heart</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">It will give a head start</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1940744943">Express your love often</a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><a href="http://2d341zxbccq20m1memn9dpsgpa.hop.clickbank.net/">Will increase your married life by multiples of ten.</a></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">http://annadeep.hop.clickbank.net/,
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